It's not unusual to feel this way, especially if you have experienced a midlife 'transition' including separation or divorce, death of a loved one, redundancy or empty nest.
Now it's just you and the dog or cat at home, questioning your future wondering, 'Is this all there is?'
That hollow feeling, or a sense that something is missing in your life.
Getting too much in your head, analysing, focussing on the how and what you think you 'should' be doing.
Connecting purpose with earning money and feeling the pressure of that.
Not knowing how to be clear on what your purpose is.
In my situation, I read a couple of books and a Google Search led to an online course I didn't complete. I was focussing on my job instead of pursuing my purpose.
Of course, not having a clue what else to do didn’t help.
If only I'd had a Guide; someone in my corner to help me feel my way into it and take the initial steps to put my purpose into action.
It took me four years to really feel I'd discovered my purpose.
Even then, I didn't realise that we each have a unique Human Design and when we are living in alignment with it, our Human Design can lead us towards our purpose.
I'm Fay Millington, a heart-led Purpose Coach.
After learning a broad range of coaching modalities and undertaking significant research, I have an approach that reduces the overthinking and time to uncover your purpose.
I trained as a Multiple Brain Integration Techniques (mBIT) Master Coach because I discovered our intelligence isn't just in our overthinking head. Our body is listening to everything we say and think - and wants to have a say in what we do!
I discovered Human Design in early 2024. It's a system that helps you understand yourself deeply - how you are naturally built to interact with the world, make decisions, and live the life that feels right for you. And it's astoundingly accurate.
mBIT and Human Design are both based on a combination of ancient wisdom and modern science.
I don't want you to waste time getting nowhere, when you can live with purpose, meaning and fulfilment.
I will meet you wherever you are at, offering guidance tailored to your individual situation and your stage in your search for purpose.
I'm based in Australia and meet clients over Zoom in the comfort of our respective homes.
The vast majority of coaches work with the conscious and subconscious mind to support you to achieve your goals.
Instead of just focussing on what you think and believe, I work with you to uncover what you truly desire, need and feel too.
You can't just think yourself into your purpose.
Because if you aren't 'feeling it', it isn't your purpose!
I take a different approach that will reduce the overthinking and overwhelm.
My three-part model of purpose discovery and implementation includes:
It's beneficial having a coach and mentor who understands your unique Human Design, includes your multiple intelligences, and reminds you who you are being at your highest expression.
Curious to find out more about your Human Design and what's possible for you? You are invited to request a free easy to read personalised Human Design Report and discussion of your options. Book a free no obligation short consult and request your report, by clicking on the LET'S CHAT button to schedule a time.
What's it like working with Fay?
What's the next step to find out more, receive your personalised Human Design Report and discuss your options?
Schedule a free, no-obligation Short Consult with Fay
Yes, we have intelligence in our heart and gut!
If you'd like to learn a little more, watch this video (less than 2 minutes).